Murderly love.

Love surely has its bad sides no matter how much we argue this out; it’s still got its negativity. As possessive as it gets don’t you think it could become dangerous and harmful and so away from the whole positivity it’s supposed to possess? Fatherly love, motherly love, sisterly love, brotherly love, but of course the one that intrigues us to hear and talk about the intimate and over affectionate love. ‘Murderly’ love, the thought of it alone is scary but you’d be surprised at the things we do for love, the crazy things, if I may put it that way. It becomes so powerful, it takes the whole of our humanly being and wraps it up in an evil chest which more often than always ruins relationships. Don’t be too over the top possessive, jealous, domineering and the actual truth…selfish! It’s supposed to be a bond, an affiliation, something to make two people feel as one, but the moment one gets over the top and begins to over read every detail and wants to pioneer the relationship and wear the crown, it becomes murderly, there’s absolutely nothing beautiful about it. It becomes boring and unusual and annoying. It absolutely kills the word love and everything else you’ve been building dies. No matter the personage of an individual we should learn to adapt, love flows. You let things happen freely, you don’t force things to happen. Let it conquer. Let its healing power be a blessing!

Life's a teacher!

Its always been said that life sure is a teacher, sincerely in our daily lives the more we live the more we learn. We learn from our errors and the good part is the smart ones try it all over again and dont make mistakes anymore. Its unavoidable, we're bound to fall into pits one way or the other. In my country Naija, u need to be tough to survive, i grew up in a neighbourhood where everything was out of place, no laws, no order, everyone was free to do as they wished, only the strong did survive ... and ofcourse the ones that decided to keep mute, act dumb and try not to be seen or heard. Well i fall into the second category. I was shy and scared, i was more scared of the fact that i couldnt deal with the world out there, my eyes were shut from prying eyes. I made a couple of mistakes in my life, but lookin back at it, i dont see them as mistakes rather they were stepping stones, one of such has to do with the most important part of my life; my relationships. Looking back at it was i wrong or right to have...