Time and time again, we fall! Yeah, trip, miss a step, stumble on some lousy stone blocking your way, you hiss, lament and move on. But other times, you stop, wonder why you just did that, ruminate about it for a short while and then eventually move on. We still move on! Truth is we always move on, we always do. The stone might have caused a bruise, be it big or small, but more often than always we move on. So I ask one big question, when we get hurt and bruised in that red spot that lies in our hearts, basically, when we get heart broken, why do we find it so hard to simply move on, the bad thought of it always lurkes around somewhere in our minds. We hurt ourselves the more. Its hard yeah sure, no one said it was easy but its definitely achievable to get over it and only you has the ability. It lies in your hands, you either pet it, try to heal it or squash the damn thing. We fall happily head over heels and the moment we fall out of that head over heels terribly over-incredible love affair you thought would end in marriage, we mourn about it like some one just died.
Sighs. Heart breaks. The sordid love affair just ended, we collapse and everything else collapses, we think with our head no more and everything else seems not to exist anymore, nothing matters anymore and yes, to some, love actually doesn’t exist and well probably never did.
There’s two persons involved in a broken relationship, sometimes three, (that’s the person who probably caused the mishap); but really in you two, one person’s going to have all the fun soon after and start life all over again with even more fun, why cant that fun loving person be… you. You really don’t have to be the person singing “I will survive”, rather be the one shouting out loud “Feels good to be alone, am having me some me time”. Sincerely I know it’s a litle hurtin; did I say hurting okay its terribly hurting to be jilted, cheated on and be the one with the bad bruises in a broken relationship, but fact still remains that what has happened has happened. Let your auto tune be positive and piercing, get up on your feet and stop being slouchy about a heart break. Your heart will be healed the only problem is when and how…basically how soon soon would be.
You should let bygones be bygones; you know why:
1. Your ex is probably going to get another current and most definitely cheat on the other person and keep living like the low life he/she probably is…
2. Be careful, be very careful, you know why? He/she is going to want to take advantage of the break up period flirt a little and this is done usually when he feels he misses you claiming he/she wants a comeback.
3. Be friends yeah but be friends from a distance, the only time you should make an appearance should be a grand one, make sure you look hot and most of all you have a better hottie beside you.
4. Who said break ups are not for the faint hearted, prove that lousy statement wrong.
5. On Facebook, please and please, make absolutely normal updates that have nothing to do with your ex...don’t sound pathetic always.
6. Look provocative! Make his mind rover, blow his mind and make him wish that you were still his….it’s all for one motive.
7. Songs you should avoid for that time being, please and please do not listen to songs that would only make you feel sad and hurt the more, listen to songs that would not alter your ego. I do rock, Metallica…lol…anything that makes you feel good with yourself.
8. Cut the crap of grieving over the loss, like I said it’s a loss and the loser is the other person and you worth a whole lot more than that.
Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.” If it’s not worth it….flush it! You’d be glad you did!
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